Choice or Destiny?

  so my last few post got me thinking aboout something that bugs me a lot. choice or destiny. this bugs me because you can argue either side forever. if you believe in choice than someone who believes in destiny can argue that you never had a choice that it was destiny for you to make that choice. maybe "evil" people dont choose to be evil, maybe theyre destined to be evil. when people talk about how people get out of bad homes and choose to change their life and make it better, maybe they arent choosing anything at all, maybe thats just what theyre supposed to do. but this whole thing also wraps into religion. which i will never talk about on here.........If you have any opinions on the dicussion feel free to comment